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Heal with Heart. Grow with Guidance

Wherever you are on your relationship journey — heartbreak, dating, or deepening intimacy — you deserve clarity, support, and emotional safety.

Where Are You in Your Relationship Journey?

Healing After Heartbreak

Gentle guidance for grief, overwhelm, and emotional regulation.

Ready to Date Again

Build confidence and date with emotional safety.

Deepening Intimacy

Strengthen emotional closeness and communication.

Find Out Exactly Where You Are on Your Relationship Journey

Discover your emotional stage and receive personalized guidance.
Your result will show if you are:

What Your Quiz Results Mean ​

Your personalized result will reveal:

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How your emotional stage links to the journey hub 

that best fits your needs.

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Recommended resources, products, and services

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Articles and tools to support your next steps

Quiz Outcome

Emotionally Overwhelmed

Interpretation:
You are carrying more emotional weight than your system can manage. This is a stage of emotional overload where compassion, grounding, and stabilization are essential.

What You Need:

  • Safety
  • Emotional regulation tools
  • Reassurance
  • Slowing down
 
Next Steps:
  • Go to: Healing After Heartbreak Hub
  • Free Guide: Reclaim Your Life After Heartbreak
  • Product: Growing Through Heartbreak eBook
  • Service: 1:1 Counselling
  • Articles: Emotional regulation, grief recovery

“Start by stabilising your emotional world. Here is the safest place to begin.”

Interpretation:
You’re protecting your heart by withdrawing or numbing. This is a sign of emotional self-protection, not failure.

What You Need:

  • Slow reconnection
  • Emotional safety
  • Understanding of patterns
 
Next Steps:
  • Go to: Heartbreak OR Dating Hub
  • Free: Attachment and emotional safety resources
  • Product: Dating Coaching (pattern awareness)
  • Service: 1:1 Counselling
  • Articles: Avoidance, attachment styles

“You don’t need to rush. Let’s gently rebuild emotional safety together.”

Interpretation:
You are between chapters — not in pain, but not fully grounded or confident yet.

What You Need:

  • Clarity
  • Confidence rebuilding
  • Next-step direction
 
Next Steps:
  • Go to: Ready to Date Again Hub
  • Free: Dating Readiness Quiz
  • Product: Dating Confidence Coaching
  • Articles: Dating emotional safety, boundaries

“You’re entering a new chapter—let’s help you move forward with clarity.”

Interpretation:
You are emotionally open and ready for aligned connection.

What You Need:

  • Tools for healthy intimacy
  • Support for deepening connection
 
Next Steps:
  • Go to: Dating OR Intimacy Hub
  • Free: Intimacy & communication content
  • Product: Couples counselling or dating coaching
  • Articles: Trust, communication, emotional intimacy

“You’re ready for healthy connection—here’s how to build it with intention.”

The Talk & Love Method™

5-Stage Framework

Stage 1

REVEAL

REVEAL

Understanding your emotional truth

Stage 2

RELEASE

RELEASE

Processing and letting go of emotional pain

Stage 3

RECLAIM

RECLAIM

Rebuilding identity and inner safety

Stage 4

REFRAME

REFRAME

Creating a healthier relational story

Stage 5

RECONNECT

RECONNECT

Developing safe, connected relationships

REVEAL

Understanding your emotional truth

RELEASE

Processing and letting go of emotional pain

RECLAIM

Rebuilding identity and inner safety

REFRAME

Creating a healthier relational story

RECONNECT

Developing safe, connected relationships

Explore Support Tailored to Your Journey

HEARTBREAK HEALING

  • Free: Reclaim Your Life After Heartbreak Guide/ +  why you spiral -illustrated guide/Power of CBT/ Counselling or coaching / Why you spiral guide /
  • Paid: Growing Through Heartbreak eBook
  • Services: 1:1 Counselling

READY TO DATE AGAIN

  • Free: Are You Ready to Date Again? Power of CBT
  • Paid: Dating Confidence Coaching
  • Services: 1:1 Coaching

DEEPENING INTIMACY

  • Free: Emotional Intimacy Articles
  • Paid: Couples Counselling & Intimacy Coaching
  • Services: Workshops

Ways to Work With Me

Services:
1:1 Counselling: Emotional healing and guided support
1:1 Coaching: Dating readiness & pattern breaking
Couples Support: Communication & intimacy tools
Digital Resources: Guides, eBooks, workshops

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